I’ve been going through my files and came across this quote I had tucked away. I don’t know who made this observation. Obviously, though, it comes from a wise person!
In a marriage we must relate to the person we have before us while keeping in mind the ideal to whom we made the vows, who may at the time, bear no resemblance at all to what we are seeing and hearing.
In a successful marriage we do not get to choose between them.
THIS is the person to whom you are making your vow. . .
May you both vow to keep each other mutually honest, relevant, authentic and alive.
Are you thinking of writing personal vows to each other?
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