Last Saturday I officiated the wedding of Stephen & Monique (names changed), a couple who are friends of Steve & Katie, a couple whose wedding I officiated last year.  Stephen had been one of Steve’s groomsmen and now Steve was one of Stephen’s.  In fact, Stephen’s other three groomsmen had been groomsmen for Steve, as all the guys had been in the same fraternity at UCLA. I wanted to make sure that at Stephen and Monique’s ceremony I didn’t say …