Two weeks ago I officiated the wedding of Stephen & Monique (names changed), a couple who are friends of Cody & Katie, a couple whose wedding I officiated last year. Stephen had been one of Cody’s groomsmen and now Cody was one of Stephen’s. In fact, Stephen’s other three groomsmen had been groomsmen for Cody, as all the guys had been in the same fraternity. I wanted to make sure that at Stephen and Monique’s ceremony I didn’t say any of …