sarah zimmer photography   When we talked, I felt brilliant, fascinating; she brought out the version of myself I like most. Nadir Alsadir   Recently I learned that close friends of mine (not the couple in photo) are divorcing after twenty years of marriage. I was / am stunned. I had no idea. Not a clue.   This blog is about weddings and not divorces. About beginnings and not endings. Yet, it’s been hard for me to write as I …