“How Do You Think It Went?”

I came here tonight
because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody,
you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

When Harry Met Sally

Last month I officiated a charming micro wedding at a beach resort here in SoCal. 

The couple had hired one of my fav event planners, and everything about the celebration reminded me why this planner is one of my favs!

After the ceremony, the bride, Sharon (names changed), asked me:

“How do you think it went?”

I was surprised since that’s the question I usually ask the couple (maybe not that directly, but I try to find out if they’re happy right after the ceremony).

I asked Sharon, “How do you think it went?”

Sharon exclaimed, “I loved it!”

Relieved, I said, “Then that’s all that matters!”

And ya know what?  

That is ALL that matters – 

you + your partner enjoying your celebration

If your friends and family aren’t able to join in the fun (even via livestream) THEN that’s their problem – NOT yours!

I know, I know – easier said than done, BUT. . .

Your wedding is an act of thanksgiving – not a play to be critiqued!

If you want more tips on how to communicate in smart, healthy ways with your partner – during wedding planning and beyond – 

check out my book, 

How To Plan Your Wedding AND Stay Sane!

OR –

Treat you and your partner to a communications coaching session with me. 

Click HERE for details!

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